This book, an epistolary novel full of long-form letters, the rare email, and notes to
friends, family, colleagues, and even strangers, filled my heart and soul and
became one of my favorite books of last year.
Sybil van Antwerp contains multitudes. She was once an indispensable law clerk to
a powerful judge (only missing a judge seat herself because of her gender and the time period), and now she is a retiree, a divorcee, a mother to estranged children, a
friendly neighbor, an avid reader and communicator with authors, a best friend, a
woman with failing eyesight, and most of all a letter writer. Once a dying art, Sybil's
correspondence proves that choosing one's words carefully is a learned skill and
that writing letters to someone is a way of showing great devotion to them in your
time and your attention to detail. As we follow Sybil's letters over the course of 8-9
years, we infer many things about her life and relationships. We come to know a woman who is too old to mince words but who is also harboring secrets she may
take to her grave.
We see fractures in her closest familial bonds and rejoice when she takes both a
suicidal young man and a Syrian refugee customer service representative under
her wing. Not all is golden in Sybil's world, as someone from her past with a grudge
wants to track her down, as she contends with two admiring men, and as the
effects of impending blindness are never far off. And through it all, there is one last
letter that Sybil seems unable to finish or send, even if doing so may provide her
the closure or catharsis she desperately seeks. But from the words she sends and
those she receives, we come to know a woman unafraid of any obstacle and self
reflective enough to realize there is always a little more life left to live.
I know that Sybil and her story will stay with me for a long time. Epistolary novels can be hard to settle into (I once read Dracula in high school and had such a time of it getting into the rhythm), but the structure of The Correspondent worked beautifully. Pay attention to the dates and the salutations, and you'll be just fine. I'm inspired to pick up a nice pen and compose my own correspondence in Sybil’s honor.